More Sex : The Low-Down on the Down and Dirty

This page covers specific girl-girl sex acts and aims to give you a more broad sense of what sex between women can be: life changing, engrossing, uplifting, impulsive, carnal, creative, powerful… and everything else in between.

If you have had sex with a woman previously, this section of the site aims to build on those experiences so that safer sex practices can be included in your list of things which turn you on. If you have never had sex with a woman, hopefully this section will give you a bit of an idea of some future delights!

Vaginal Fingering

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WHAT
Digital Sex
Finger Fucking

HOW
Placing one or more fingers in the vagina

RISK REDUCTION
No cuts on fingers / hands, clean hands, no penetration during menstruation, short fingernails, clear communication about what is comfortable, checking genitals for sores.

EQUIPMENT
Latex gloves

Anal Fingering

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WHAT
Vaginal Fisting
Hand balling

HOW
Placing one or more fingers in the anus

RISK REDUCTION
No cuts on fingers / hands, clean hands, no penetration during menstruation, short fingernails, clear communication about what is comfortable, checking genitals for sores.

EQUIPMENT
Latex gloves

Vaginal Fisting

fist

WHAT
Fisting
Hand balling

HOW
By placing the entire fist into the vagina

RISK REDUCTION
No cuts on fingers / hands, clean hands, no penetration during menstruation, short fingernails, clear communication about what is comfortable, checking genitals for sores.

EQUIPMENT
Latex gloves

Clitoral Stimulation

hand

WHAT
Vulva stimulation
Clit stimulation

HOW
By touching the external genitalia

RISK REDUCTION
No cuts on fingers / hands, clean hands, no penetration during menstruation, short fingernails, clear communication about what is comfortable, checking genitals for sores.

EQUIPMENT
Latex gloves

Cunnilingus

tongue

WHAT
Going down
Muff diving
Eating pussy
Go fishing

HOW
By inserting the tongue/mouth to the vulva/vagina

RISK REDUCTION
No cuts in mouth or on lips, don’t have cold sores, wearing a tampon.

EQUIPMENT
Dams

Analingus

tongue

WHAT
Rimming

HOW
Using the tongue/mouth to stimulate around and in the anus

RISK REDUCTION
No cuts in mouth or on lips

EQUIPMENT
Dams

Vulva Tribadism

body

WHAT
Vulva to Vulva
Humping
Dry fucking

HOW
Genital to genital rubbing. Rubbing genitals against any part of partners body (excluding hands and mouth)

RISK REDUCTION
Cover cuts or avoid touching any sores

EQUIPMENT
Dams for Vulva/ vulva contact

Frottage Tribadism

body

WHAT
Body slides
Frottage

HOW
Naked body to body rubbing or sliding

RISK REDUCTION
Cover anhy cuts with a bandaids or bandages and avoid touching any sores

EQUIPMENT
Dams for Vulva/ vulva contact

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Phallic Toys

Sex Toys

WHAT
Toys that are shaped like a penis or phallic

TYPES
Dildos (designed for vaginal penetration), vibrators (uses vibrations for stimulation), strap-ons (dildo in harness), butt plugs (for anal penetration, all butt plugs must have a flared base to prevent them being lost in the rectum), vegetables

RISK REDUCTION
Washing toys with Sex Toy Cleaner or an anti-bacterial soft-handwash with warm water; using a condom over the toy to keep it clean.

EQUIPMENT
Condoms

Sex Play Toys

Sex Toys

WHAT
Items and toys for erotic sex play

TYPES
Nipple clamps (designed to provide constant pressure to the nipple), anal beads (beads on a string which are inserted in the vagina or anus and are generally pulled out at orgasm), clitoral stimulators, whips, straps, chains, gags... and so many more

RISK REDUCTION
Washing toys with Sex Toy Cleaner or an anti-bacterial soft-handwash with warm water; using a condom over the toy to keep it clean.

EQUIPMENT
Condoms

Body Fluids

fluids

WHAT
Bloodsports
(Possible Fetish)

HOW
This invoves cutting is the SM practice of using a scalpel or other fine blade to make shallow cuts in the top layer of your partner's skin. Play piercing is using very fine needles to pierce your partner temporarily, removing the needles at scene's end. Bloodsports may also be used in a BDSM scene

RISK REDUCTION
Skin itself should be thoroughly cleaned and made as close to sterile as possible. Any sharp objects used in blood play should be sterile

EQUIPMENT
Nil

Body Fluids

fluids

WHAT
Watersports
(Possible Fetish)

HOW
Sexual stimulation from watching or having someone urinate on you. May involve drinking urine. May also involve faeces. Watersports may also be used in a BDSM scene

RISK REDUCTION
STI screening for active partner

EQUIPMENT
Nil

Sexual fetishes

High-heels-fetish

WHAT
Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish; the person who has a fetish for that object/situation is a fetishist. A sexual fetish may be regarded as an enhancing element to a romantic/sexual relationship "achieved in ordinary ways (e.g. having the partner wear a particular garment)" or as a mental disorder/disorder of sexual preference if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life. Arousal from a particular body part is classified as partialism.